Relational Vs. Comprehensive Evangelism

I have been thinking about a couple of the different schools of thought when it comes to evangelism lately, and would like to share some of my thoughts.

First, there is the relational school, which says that you need to earn the right to share the gospel with someone. You need to become their friend and let your life be an example to them before you can share the message of the gospel with them.

Second, there is the "cold-turkey" school, which, because of the urgency of the message, and the reality of hell would say that you should share the gospel whenever you have a chance, with whomever you have the opportunity. You don't necessarily need to work your way into their life, because it is the message of the gospel that contains the power of God, not our lives or our example of the gospel.

While both schools of thought have very valid points, I would have to say that I believe in a more comprehensive approach. Here's what I mean. Relational evangelism is great, you have the opportunity to share Christ with someone you already know. It's great, it's hard, it's scary, and it can be effective, because those people have had the chance to see the way you live your life, and when the message is shared with them there may be an "aha!" moment where they realize that this gospel is why you have such joy, why you live a different life, etc. It is a great evangelistic tool. On the other hand, Christ did not command us to share the gospel only with those we know, but to take it to the ends of the earth. And if you look at Christ's ministry, he shared the gospel with thousands of people, thousands! Many times those thousands were all together in one place! He did not always use the relational method. In fact, a good example of this is in John chapter 4, where he meets the woman at the well. He has met this woman for the first time, and honestly, he treats her in a fairly confrontational and unconventional method, which made her uncomfortable. He talked to her, when the social norm would say no to that. He then dug pretty deep into her personal life, and then shared the message of the gospel with her. He did not have a personal relationship with this woman, he had just met her. But his message was met by her realizing he was the Christ, and then sharing it with her whole village, who also believed.

In my view, the correct approach to gospel presentation would be an "any and all" method. As paul said in 1 Corinthians 9:22-23 "to the weak I became as weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all men, that I might by all means save some. Now this I do for the gospel’s sake, that I may be partaker of it with you." We should always be ready to share the gospel (1 Peter 3:15, 2 Timothy 4:1-2), whether it be with friends or strangers, we are called to be Christ's ambassadors in this world.

The fact is that it is the MESSAGE of the gospel that is the salvation of men, not our presentation of it (1 Cor. 1:17), not our lives, but the message itself. This is clearly presented in Philippians 1:15-18:

Philippians 1:15-18

15 Some indeed preach Christ even from envy and strife, and some also from goodwill: 16 The former preach Christ from selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing to add affliction to my chains; 17 but the latter out of love, knowing that I am appointed for the defense of the gospel. 18 What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is preached; and in this I rejoice, yes, and will rejoice.

So, here's the gist of this section of scripture, there are people who preach the gospel for ill motives, they want selfish gain, they want to stir up trouble, they want to feed self. BUT, there are also those who preach Christ from goodwill, seeking to further the gospel message and bring people into the fold of God. So what of it? Paul rejoices that Christ is preached, whether it is in pretense or truth, whether from selfish motives or sincere motives, he will rejoice in the fact that Christ is preached. Why? Because it is the MESSAGE that counts, not our presentation of it, not our lives as we present it, not our words, not our deeds, not our denomination, not even our own status as believers, but the MESSAGE. The message of the gospel is where the power is. Romans 1:16 (I am not ashamed of the gospel, because IT is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile.)

Paul rejoices, because the message of the gospel is what the Holy Spirit uses to draw people to Christ, not our lives, but the gospel. This does not give us an out on living holy lives and practicing our faith, on the contrary, if we have truly received the gospel of Christ, our lives will reflect the gospel, and be a living testimony to it. But, Paul was rejoicing even though there were men out there proclaiming the gospel selfishly, and out of impure motives. This makes it very clear that what really matters in evangelism is the message of the cross, nothing more, nothing less. 1 Corinthians 2:1-3 When I came to you, brothers, I did not come with eloquence or superior wisdom as I proclaimed to you the testimony about God. For I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. I came to you in weakness and fear, and with much trembling.

Side Note: Paul is rejoicing that Christ is preached, but elsewhere, he condemns those who would distort the gospel of Christ. He is here rejoicing that the true gospel is preached, not a distorted one. We are not to tolerate false gospels as you can clearly see in the book of Galatians. But, as long as the true gospel is being preached, we are to rejoice, no matter what the circumstances of it's presentation.

Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should. -Ephesians 6:19-20

South Africa

Jen and I recently went on a mission trip to South Africa. It was an eye opening, life changing experience, and I wish I could sum it up in a few words, but I can't. SO, you should go check out our blog page we created about the trip.

http://www.vervecreativedesign.com/southafrica

Blessings,
Nate